Post Love

What else would come only debt, headache and problems.

I know alot of people who falls in love because of some status myth they think and they would show off their partners (Oh Gosh its like Hot Rasagulla with Tomato Pickle combination LOL) and they also will run away to get married. Once after marriage all the blooms fade out and when reality comes into picture starts the actual life of them. Its hard to see some Good Talented guys getting wasted their life without any proper job and money, they run pillar to post for survival with odd jobs keep shifting jobs, Raising kids and leading tough lives.

Now that everyone doubts his credibility of leading a family life, everyone will say he /she  has spoiled the others life x y z., None to support us financially and emotionally.

In this world of cut throat competition people are running after their desires and needs. Our needs and wants is never going to die , in this circumstances its too risky to fall for someone who is a wrong person to us.

Rather its better to be Single and  Thank God I dint Run Away with anyone ;) 

Why People fall in love

Because they dream its a different world where fantasies will happen

its a solace where your presume your dreams will come true.

its a haven where you think all your problems will perish

Many of people who fall in love are induced by the films, just for the sake of falling in love they do so, once they ve fallen,both will roam about all the street, the purse of the guy will shrink, commitment leads to unwanted misunderstanding. one fine day they girl will say bubye and go

why to have this unwanted burden eat up our brains, better to be alone make constructive friendship.

its only a small step called sex which differentiate a good friend from a lover.

moreover why to be afraid if anyone had seen you roaming about, waste hell a lot of money and show off that you are better. if you really love a person why to show off be yourself, if that person is not able to take you as you are, then how are you going to live forever in life.

Making false promises, telling hell a lot of lies, get loan to eat with your dear, why all these nonsense better to be alone and enjoy what you really have. its much better to be without anything than to have debts unnecessarily.

think, its all testosterone which play all these feelings, so think logically stay away from problems and fear.

Uncertainty

When you are not sure what you do at work

when you dont get what you shud

when people dont take what you meant

when you dont know what to spk

The feel of insecurity is more pressure than anything one can handle,
The Feel of losing , when you are charged with something you have not actually done.
When people grudge against you behind your back, knowing they are digging a pit for you to fall.
When you know people do a character assassination of you for you to fall down.
when you come to know that you are going to lose your job, what will you do for life, what will you do for living a decent life, how people will speak when you sit at home, how will your dear ones react when you are down. Until you find a new job how will you spend the time, how killing is it to kill time at home.
What will your friends say to console you, how many advises do you need to hear and for how long?
Oh my God, how many times will you curse God for ditching you, How many times will you CRY alone.
How many lies will we tell anyone that we are employed still?

25 Paise in my Pocket

I remember sometime during my college days. i go by train everyday to college, those days were really tough, i even had just 25 paise on my pocket while travelling, now there is no Value for that 25paise and even I dont have a coin of 25 paise.

if the train had stopped somewhere due to any reason, I dont know what I will do, mebbe I should be waiting until the problems get sorted out. Those days we didnt have Mobile phone for help. Thinking those times now i m smiling at those lovely moments but  it wasnt the same now though I get salary have Mobile phones but the thrill of going without knowing what will happen is making me Smile Again.

After my postgraduation, i joined a company worked for just 1 month, i dint like the job. i stayed there just to get my 1st salary, quit and gave my salary to my parents. Then too i dint have anything on my pocket mebbe some few rupees, i felt really bad about it not having anything in my pocket, But good piece of thoughts that came to my mind, anyway i will get a job of my choice, i will earn also  but one chance of enjoying without anything, without money just good friends and good chat. Enjoying every moment of having  nothing to lose.

I dont know if I have the same mind to enjoy everything, having a committed life, commitment towards financials and most importantly our dependants, but still how much ever I can spend those moments are not going to come back.

Its fun to be nothing, you can jus be yourself, love everything u do. Hardly we live for ourselves, let live sometime for Us.